During the coronavirus, American Heritage Girls (AHG) have been busy serving the CALL, social distance style… Instead of making meals themselves, AHG used a grant from Modern Woodmen of America to purchase meals from Gina’s Catering for CALL families. (Thanks Gina for the wonderful discount and extra donation!) Along with the meals, 8th grader Lilly Neu mailed out Dominos discount cards to CALL families and has been making masks to donate locally as she works towards a leadership award through AHG.
The Modern Woodmen Grant also paid for gift cards for teens, clothes, a improvement project for one family, and the ice cream social. Modern Woodmen does local service projects each year and was so pleased to be able to support CALL families during this difficult time. This fall, 8th grader Kara Ivy will be leading a service project to make more meals for families. AHG is a faith based scouting organization for girls that has many adopted and foster girls participating each year. For more info contact email@example.com
Our journey in foster care started when we became a foster family support family for some dear friends of ours. We didn’t know exactly what we were doing or what FFSS was, but we jumped in head-first. We learned very quickly what a support family meant, we were just that, a support system for not only the foster parents but the foster children as well.
We spent hours pouring into the beautiful children our friends fostered. We attended Pre-K graduations, birthday parties, had weekend sleep overs with the children, went to the movies, took them to park, went shopping with and for them, went to the lake with them, attended family sessions at play areas. We were there, right along side our friends, loving these sweet children they had in their homes. We were prayer warriors for everyone involved. 72 hours. That is all the time you get to have alone with these sweet children at one time. There are so many things you can do during our time supporting the parents, but more than anything, you are supporting the children. You are a safe adult, someone that they can trust. An adult who is fully invested in them and wants what is best for them.
But let me just say this, when it is time for the children to move on, whether that is going back to bio mom or dad, to another foster family, or to their forever family, you will grieve. You will grieve because you did your job right. It isn’t easy walking that journey along side a foster family, or the children they have for a short time. Some weekends are hard, some are easy. But they are always worth it. Always.
Kaleb had been in foster care for more than 5 years when he was adopted at age 13. He missed out on a lot of the ‘firsts’ that most kids experience while growing up such as participating in sports and birthday parties. Kaleb shares below what a difference having a family made in his life:
“Being adopted has changed my life. It had given me the great feeling in the world. I finally have a group that supports me and loves me unconditionally. It means the world to me that they have taken me in and love me like their own. It’s almost like having a dream come true. When I was in foster care, I would want to leave and go somewhere else. But here, I know I never want to leave and I know I never have to leave. I know I won’t have to go from school to school so I can put more effort into my grades. I can have friends and build relationships with teachers and coaches. I can play sports now, and that’s something that I’ve never been able to do before. I’ve had so many firsts since being brought into my family. I had my first birthday party at the age of 13, experienced my first over night stay with friends, experienced my first basketball conference win, and go to my first homecoming.
I was headed down a dark path before i met Mom and Dad. If I hadn’t been adopted I know that I would be on the streets somewhere, probably selling drugs or addicted to them. May possibly even be in jail.
Now I feel like I belong. And I am chosen. Out of all the kids that were up for adoption they picked me. They have continued to show me the love of Christ. Even when I messed up, they didn’t give up on me. God has blessed me beyond what I deserved by giving me this family.”
Please prayerfully consider adopting an older child and give them a chance at having a happy childhood! If you live in Saline or Perry Counties (Arkansas), please join us for an information meeting to learn more. Visit our Events page
to find the link for upcoming information meetings.